6.29.2007

Jcrew you minx!

As I posted yesterday, I found a completely adorable dress for our rehearsal dinner on sale at jcrew.com. Only, when I tried to buy it, the site said it was sold out. Well, today I thought, hey it worked with the wedding dress, maybe there will be one there now. So, at 7:44am I went back to the sale page and there it was, on sale, in my size and ready to ship! I ordered it and should have it in 4-7 days!

I decided that what drew me to the Anthropologie dress was the straight skirt. It just really had that retro feel. So, even though the colors are different, I think this will be just right. So that being said, here is my dress!



I can cross something else off the list. Yay!.....We'll talk about the shoes later :-)

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6.28.2007

Cake Cake Cake

Well we finally came to a decision on cake...well, sort of. We at least came to a decision on a cake vendor. We are going with Queen Anne's Confections locally and we couldn't be more delighted! Well, I suppose we could if it were free....but I digress.

We had our tasting on Sunday and it was delicious! We decided to forgo the coconut, but I am very pleased with our replacement choice. I'm not gonna tell, I need to leave SOMETHING to the imagination! I will say, that it was great on Sunday...and Sunday night and again on Monday!

Overall, I am really excited and happy with our choice. I can't wait to eat it! (Again!!)

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Dang-it Diane!!

I am still on the hunt for a rehearsal dinner dress and I ALMOST just had it. I found an adorable dress on j crew and when I clicked "add to cart" it was all of a sudden sold out! Arrgh!! So I decided to try my hand at Nordstrom.

Well, THAT was a mistake! Not only are almost all of the dresses over my budget, they are adorable!! Insult to injury I tell you! Here are 2 of my favorites, thanks to Diane von Furstenberg:




So many options! So little money! :-) I know I will find something eventually. The first step is to stop looking in the designer section..hehe.

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6.27.2007

We Are Family!

My two sisters are coming into town this Friday for my bridal shower!! I can't believe the time has already come for the shower. And even more exciting is getting to spend time with all of my favorite girls!

Saturday, we will go to the shower in the morning and then my mom and sisters will come over to my place for a "dress fitting". I'm sure we'll talk and giggle and eat and have a great time. Hopefully I can put them to work on some leftover projects too!

Both Amy and Angie live 3 hours away in different directions, so I am really glad that they can make it. It doesn't seem like a long ways away, but we don't see each other as often as you might think. I am also excited that my mom will be in on the fun! The four of us really have a great time together and I am so thankful to have awesome women to look up to!

Here are a couple pictures we took on our "girls only" trip to Disney World in 2005!




Hooray!

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God Bless America!

So we sent out our invitations, which means we have a final guest list. After reviewing the list, I realized that we have invited people from 16 states! In fact, the majority of our invitees are from out of state. To give you a better idea, here is an illustration. The wedding is in Raleigh, NC, represented by the blue dot and the states in red represent where all our people are!


I am totally stoked that we have so many friends and family all over the country! It makes me feel all warm and fuzzy. The downside of this is that many of them won't be able to make the trip. But I know they will be there in their hearts! Less than 2 months until the big day!

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6.25.2007

Blogtastic

Oh my how the networking has taken off! It's a link-a-thon-love-fest in the world of blogging these days. A proverbial nod to a friend or stranger saying, yeah I support your contribution to the internet. Thanks for stopping by. So, you link me, I link you.

But is there a point where it's weird? Like say you've been reading for like a month or year and you forgot to comment?? I know you're out there. I'm out there too. No Beth, I only just found yours :-)

But it got me thinking. These blog-stalkers need a name.

Stoggers?
Blockers?
Blog-o-stalkerinos?

This is obviously not my area. A little help??

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It's Mind-Bottling all right



Chazz: Mind-bottling isn't it?
Jimmy: Did you just say mind-bottling?
Chazz: Yeh, mind-bottling. You know, when things are so crazy it gets your thoughts all trapped, like in a bottle?

The wedding tornado that surrounds me is starting to calm. It could just be the calm before the storm, but I realize that we have been totally productive in almost every spare moment of our time. For that, I would like to thank God. Because if anyone is on a fast track to the couch-nap, it's me.

When Jerry and I first started talking, I would boast of my napping prowess. 3 hour naps, 4 hour naps. We even slept all day one Saturday, only surfacing long enough to re-fuel at IHOP. Now, I can't say that I have totally given up on napping, but while it once was surrounded by eating, watching television and the occasional jaunt to the mall, it has been bookended by clearing shrubs, painting rooms, making wedding decorations and securing vendors!

I'm not complaining. Actually, one might argue that all this business makes for one rewarding nap. But, I look forward to the days of saying, I don't feel like it. And then not doing it anyway.

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Ahh registry....



After reading this article today, I got to thinking about registries and wedding gifts in general. It isn't that I have a problem with people registering for a honeymoon, but it seems to be similar to the all out $30k wedding. Is it really worth it? Wouldn't it be awesome if you could register for gas or groceries or new window shutters?? (I know you technically can, but work with me here)

Jerry and I spent a lot of time trying to decide what we wanted and needed to register for. And sure, there are a few silly things that are on there just for fun. But we are really trying to get off on the right foot and not have too many "things". It is easy to get attached to something for absolutely no reason. I threw away a stuffed tiger that I have packed up and moved with me for almost 20 years because even though I think my dad won it for me, I can't really remember when...or why. Do I love my dad any less because I threw it away? Of course not. But am I glad it isn't sitting in a box in the attic? Yes.

Of course it is fun to give and receive presents. And I am not convinced that the whole honeymoon registry is a bad idea. But I am finding that I am far more excited about the gardening tools and the new towels than I would be about a fancier hotel for the honeymoon. I suppose everything is relative. But for this girl, getting married is enough for me!

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6.23.2007

Invitations!!



Jerry and I finished and mailed out our invitations today! We wanted to have a night with some friends to do all the addressing, but everyone's schedules are so out of whack that we just needed to get to it. So this morning (with plenty of coffee and brownies) we got to it!

There are a couple we still need corrected addresses for, but everyone should get them within the next week!! Yippee!! I did all the writing and Jerry did all the stuffing/sealing/stamping. You can see that we went from normal to crazy after a while:


Normal....



Normal....



ummmm.....



what? We're done?? Yay!!

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When good ideas go wrong....


As promised, here is a picture of what once was a good thing. A brownie cake. I still think I could pull it off, with more brownies, more time, and more patience. But in the end, I am definitely glad we are turning this job over to someone else. We are still eating this thing, and I will tell you it IS good :-)

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6.21.2007

Slipped through my very fingertips!!

As I referenced in this post, I had a 'dream dress' for my rehearsal dinner. It is from Anthropologie and it's probably the prettiest little thing I have ever laid my eyes on. Ok, that may be a tad dramatic. But I really like it!!

I decided to hold out for the sale, because everything goes on sale!! So I bookmarked the dress and watched it. I clicked it every day for a month and finally! It was on sale! I don't know what made me hesitate at that point, but when I finally sat down, credit card in hand, it was gone. GONE! Crap! Now what to wear to the rehearsal!? I obviously wasn't serious about wearing the same dress twice :-)

My only hope is to use this dress as my muse. Since I can't have the perfect little birds on their perfect little cherry blossoms, I should at least be able to find something with a similar 40s shape. I have already started scouring some vintage stores online, so who knows what I will find!

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I'm coo coo for COCONUT!

Let them eat CAKE!







So I am thinking something like a cross between the 2 above cakes. I really like the pearl garland on the 1st one, but I love the texture of the coconut. I think I have found a cake person, so hopefully we can meet with her soon. Thanks The Knot!

In other news, we printed our invitations yesterday!! I love them! We decided to incorporate the bird stamps that Jessica used for my shower invitations. They look awesome! I can't wait to post them, but I want to send them out first. Just a few more days!!

Our friend Seth called last night and asked if Jerry and I wanted to go see the movie Knocked Up. We don't normally go out in the middle of the week, but since we were so productive with our invitations, we decided to go for it! We had dinner at SubConscious (yummy!) and then went over to the Raleigh Grand. This movie is not for the faint of heart. You will get an ear (and eye) ful. BUT, it was hilarious!! Hopefully this quote isn't completely true,

"Marriage is like a tense, unfunny version of Everybody Loves Raymond, only it doesn't last 22 minutes. It lasts forever. "

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6.20.2007

Oh Brownie Cake....

Well, it happened that fast. My brownie cake trial (while delicious) produced less than awesome results. After a long hard stare at my sad little cake and some icing graffiti, I have admitted defeat.

The good news is, I no longer have to worry about how I am going to make a cake and store it ahead of time. The bad news is that I am 2 months away from the wedding and searching for a cake vendor! Thankfully, what we want is simple. I have sent out a few emails, but if anyone can recommend someone in the Raleigh area, let me know!

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6.19.2007

Sooo Tempting...

I don't even know where I would find these shoes. However, if I found them, I would seriously consider wearing them with my wedding dress. What do you think? Should I try to find them or keep looking??

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Ohh Pretty!

One of my favorite wedding magazines is Bride and Bloom. They have really great pictures and ideas and they seem a little bit off the beaten path of wedding planning. I was looking for some owl place card holders that I saw in the magazine on Westelm.com and I came across these awesome wooden tea light trays. I am not having candles at my reception. But if I was, these would make great centerpieces!!



Sadly, the place card holders are no longer available. This is actually a good thing because we aren't even having place cards, but I was determined to find a use for them! Here's the picture of the adorable owls that I will never have :-)

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Honeymoon Ideas...

Now that we have our flight and our car, the next order of business for the honeymoon is to plan our activities. We already know some touristy things that we definitely want to do.

~Alcatraz
~Vineyard Tour
~Fisherman's Wharf (SF)
~Fish Market (Seattle)
~Redwood Forest

Now that I write it down, that actually sounds like a lot! We also considered going sea kayaking. A friend of ours told us how fun it was and that we should check it out. But, after some consideration and a lot of unhealthy daydreaming, we decided that we didn't want to look like bait for this guy.



That's right. Sharks. We both love the water, but not what lies beneath (excuse the pun). I might have been able to pretend they didn't exist. But once Jerry fessed up, all I could think of was that time in the pool when I somehow ended up alone in there. It was just after JAWS 3 and I was sure they were going to burst through the 8 inch pipe at the bottom! It stays with me.

So, no sea kayaking. Please feel free to offer any other ideas! And if that picture wasn't enough for you, check THIS out.

:-)

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6.18.2007

Save The Dates!!

We will be sending out our invitations this week. And as I was sitting here thinking about that, I realized that I never posted about our save the dates! Now, since most of you who read this have already seen them, feel free to skip this post. I just want to have it in here because this blog has become sort of my wedding-planning scrapbook. And if you haven't seen it, here you go!



The whole thing was Jerry's idea and I just love it! Our friend Geoff came over and took a few pics and this was the best one! I have had so many comments on how "us" this card is. I am SO glad we didn't go the traditional route on this one. I love it! Great job baby!

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Monday. Blech.

Well, it's back to the real world with another Monday. But, since I am not ready to face reality yet, I will talk about my weekend! Jerry and I have 2 lists of things to do before the wedding. One for wedding related things, and one for house related things. So this weekend on Saturday, we focused on the house and Sunday, the wedding.

Saturday was fun! We spent some time with my parents, and then went to Lowes (which is always fun to me) and bought some plants and tools to work on the yard. We planted 6 Hostas along the front side walk! They kinda look like this:



This was very exciting for me because I don't think I have ever really planted anything in the ground before. Much less MY ground! It was great. We took turns digging the holes and putting in the potting mix/soil. The card says they should have white and purple blooms in late summer, so it would be completely awesome if they are in bloom when people are here for the wedding! I also planted some geraniums in a metal bucket that my mom gave me. It's in the back yard adding a tiny bit of color for now :-)

Yesterday, we were both in the morning band at Vintage and after a nice long nap, we decided to work on the ribbon wands. I got about 50 done and will post pictures soon! I didn't get to the brownies cake just yet, but I am hoping for tomorrow. My trip to the grocery store was replaced with the afore-mentioned nap! We had home made mac'n'cheese for dinner and finally watched Letters from Iwo Jima. It was a fun and productive weekend!!

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6.17.2007

A little bit more....

You might have noticed that on our labels for the centerpieces, there is a reference to a bible verse, Ruth 1:16. Jerry and I decided to incorporate this verse to represent our commitment to each other now, and in the future. It says:

But Ruth replied, “Don’t ask me to leave you and turn back. Wherever you go, I will go; wherever you live, I will live. Your people will be my people, and your God will be my God.

The reason this is particularly important to me is because this is my second marriage. I think we both feel that we were meant for each other and for this time. But being 10 years older and hopefully a little wiser, I feel like I finally really understand the depth of meaning that this verse has. Not only are we committing to the good times and memories, but we are committing to life changes and working as a team. We will follow each other and serve together no longer as individuals.

Of course we will still have our own diverse interests, but our unity will be the foundation that everything else builds on. So far, it has been rock solid! I am so glad to use this verse as a reminder to both of us that commitment is far more important than we ever thought. Did/do you have a special verse or phrase that really captures the wedding "moment" for you?

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6.16.2007

They Grow up so fast....

So far this weekend has been very family filled! Jerry's dad was in town for a day so we spent last night with him. Then today, we had a few hours to catch up with my folks and hear about their trip to Israel! They even brought us some yummy olives!!

We also had a chance to go through some of the pictures for our slide show! I am so excited about it! There are some really classic pics of both of us and it is so funny to look back and really see that our personalities have always been there.

I bought all the stuff to do my trial run of the brownie cake. I am not sure if I will do it tonight or tomorrow, but for those who were asking, I am hoping to make our wedding cake and yes, it will be a big giant brownie!! I am gonna work on different 'frosting' ideas and even freeze part of it! Then I'll thaw it out in a couple weeks to see how it tastes. It would be awesome if I could make it a week ahead of time. We'll see though.

So, it's been a busy weekend so far! And there is much more to do! For now, I will leave you with these:

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6.15.2007

Awww MAN

Well, my dreams of being a weddingbee have come to an end. They decided to "pass" on my blog. Sad day! But life goes on, and so does wedding planning. No worries, I am ramping up for many of my projects now that my supplies are (finally) arriving!

This weekend I am doing a trial run of our "brownie" cake. That's right. Stay tuned :-)

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6.14.2007

Reduce. Reuse. Recycle.

I'll admit. I didn't really plan on having a "green" wedding. But a lot of what we are doing is really turning out to be quite environmentally friendly! We ended up ordering recycled paper for our invitations and envelopes, which was almost purely coincidence. But, it was the right color and I will admit to feeling a bit better about the price knowing it was recycled. And what's leftover from the invitations, we will use for the programs. Pretty good deal. However! This is not a post about invitations, it is about my centerpieces!

I really wanted to keep this aspect simple for several reasons.

1) I plan to only have 1 or 2 variations of flowers, mainly the mini gerbera daisy
2) I am making them myself and want to do them ahead of time
3) I need this to be cost effective so I can focus my wallet on more important (to me) things

So, I knew that it would basically consist of a simple vase with a few of the flowers, but just those things wasn't doing it for me. So in a brainstorming session on the phone with my mom (usually at 8am when I am driving to work) it came to me! Jerry and I have been buying milk in glass bottles ever since we found out that Harris Teeter sold it. So, we each switched to quart sized bottles and have been stowing them away.

During the collection process I have been in a ribbon quandary. One ribbon or 2? Bow or label? Stamped or printed? I finally found my answer at myownlabels.com where I found JUST the right thing! The great thing about this website is that it doesn't have a minimum order so it was a cinch to just order enough labels for the centerpieces. Once they arrived, it was just a matter of putting them together! I started with this:



And I ended up with this!




The silk flowers are just to see how it will come together, but I will have fresh flowers for the big show! I love the way they turned out! I can't wait to see the whole table put together with the antique linens and china dessert plates. And the best part is, after the wedding, we can return all the bottles to Harris Teeter and get our deposit back!!

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Bargain Shopper....

When I knew Jerry and I were getting married at some point in the future, I immediately commissioned my uber-talented mother to pencil me in for a custom made wedding gown. She was excited to help out and happy to be a part of the process. However, at the time, all of this was simply an if/when conversation since I hadn't officially received a proposal.

Well, when my friend Jessica got engaged and asked me to be a bridesmaid, I was thrilled to hear that our bridesmaid's dresses would be from J.Crew. It was only after I was wandering around the wedding shop online that I saw THE perfect wedding dress for THE perfect price! It was a couple sizes too big but I thought, well that's simple, I can just get it altered.




Are ya with me on this one? Jessica is engaged. Not me! I called my mother. "mom, would you be terribly disappointed if I bought a wedding dress off the rack and had you add some little things here and there instead of making the whole thing?". I was really worried about hurting her feelings, which was so so silly. She said, "are you kidding me?!?! That takes out the hard part. Buy it!!"

I decided to sleep on it. But by the end of the day when i checked one last time, the dress was gone! Sold out! Mission, aborted. I even told (my boyfriend) Jerry, haha, guess what I almost bought today.....

Well the next morning, I thought man I can't believe it was sold out. I actually really loved that dress - as much as you can love something in a 2"x4" picture on a computer screen. So I checked one last time. There it was, IN MY SIZE! I was elated and immediately bought it. I had it shipped to my mom's house so I wouldn't get any questions and anxiously awaited its arrival. I wondered...is it weird that I just bought my wedding dress, online, for $99, and I am not even engaged?? Well, there are too many answers to those questions, so I decided that I had to see if it worked. If not, I could always return it - no problem.

My dress arrived on a Friday afternoon. I met my mom at her church for a secret "fitting" of the dress to see if it was workable. I put it on and she fastened it up. Not only was it workable, it looked like it was made for me! not a hem or stitch will need to be moved! We couldn't believe it. It can't be this easy can it?

Well, I got my answer just 4 hours later, when, without knowing anything that had been going on, Jerry asked me to marry him.

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6.13.2007

Everybody's doing it!!

First Weddingbee now Jessica. I gotta hop on the storyboard train! I decided to go ahead and do my storyboard to kinda focus in and see a glimpse of how all this crazy stuff in my head will crash together. So far so good!

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More Good Advice....



My friends Jessica and Joe are getting married in September, so it has been lots of fun to bounce ideas off of each other in the planning process. The other day, I was feeling particularly stressed out and I was talking to Jess and she reminded me of the importance of date night. But it was the way she said it that stood out, "we have a date night once a week, where it is just the 2 of us and we don't talk about the wedding". See, we have a lot on our social calendar these days, so I had mistakenly thought that we had date night. But, the one on one time without talking about the wedding has been seriously lacking.

SO, last night I made dinner (spaghetti and garlic crescent rolls) and we sat and talked and laughed and had a really nice time. We had planned to watch a movie, but by the time we were done eating, we decided to lay down for a minute and before we knew it, it was 10pm!! Whoops! I will say, dinner and a nap is about the best date night I could have asked for!!

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6.12.2007

Something New, Something NEW, Something new, Something NEW!

It isn't hard for me to find an excuse to buy something. But a wedding is the big daddy for retail justification-ism. I have really tried to keep my personal spending to a minimum and the clearance section, but I found this dress at Target for almost nothing and I had to get it for my shower!!

I am still working on the Rehearsal dinner dress...but that dream will be saved for another post! If it doesn't work out, this one will do double duty.

It's from the Isaac Mizrahi Summer party dresses line (Target of course) and it was only $39.99!



Here is a close up of the fabric:



I think it may only be available online, but I got mine within a few days and the fit is adorable! It hides all the icky parts and accentuates the good ones! It is also lined, but lightweight enough to be totally comfortable outside. Of course I have to stare at it for another 3 weeks, but that's ok. I love it!

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This is a.....suck!

So the place that I wanted to hold my bridal luncheon at emailed me and said that they don't take reservations for Fridays. Excuse me? If I would like to have my luncheon on a Sunday however, they would be glad to help me. Well, Sunday is not an option, because 1) Our families won't get here until mid-week before the wedding and 2) A bridal luncheon after the wedding doesn't really cut it.

So it's back to the drawing board. I called my second choice and they don't take reservations of any kind, nor do they allow parties of greater than 8 people! When did the service industry get so choosy?!?! I just want a nice meal and someone to hold a table for me!

Not to worry though, I have many more ideas up my sleeve. We'll just have to get creative :-)

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Knot quite there yet!

OK I'll admit it. Sometimes I sneak over to The Nest (theknot.com's site for newlyweds) even though we aren't married yet. A girl has to plan ahead ok?! Most brides already know about The Knot and probably the nest too, but in poking around over there I found some good advice for newlyweds. Actually, this is just good advice, period. And there were quite a few tidbits that were new (to me):

10 Insurance Tips for Newlyweds

1. Location, location, location. Homes close to fire hydrants and fire stations cost less to insure.

2. Lucky sevens. Not sure how much life insurance coverage you really need? Start by multiplying your annual salary by seven, say some experts (but talk to an agent about your specific situation). Why this much? Experts figure this is the minimum amount your spouse should get in the unlikely event of your death. You want enough coverage to handle debts and medical and funeral expenses, and to help make up for the loss of household income.

3. You can retire on "permanent life." "Permanent life" may sound like a cryogenic deep-freeze straight out of a sci-fi movie, but it's actually a useful kind of insurance in the real world. A permanent life insurance policy is a kind of long-term insurance that accrues value over time. You sock a certain amount into the policy every year, it builds and builds, and you can cash it out if you need it. That's why some couples think of permanent life insurance as a backup for their retirement savings plan: If you and your honey want to cash out your policy for expenses once you reach happy old age, you can.

4. Save the music. You can add tape and CD coverage to your car insurance policy so that if your music is stolen from your car you can replace what you lost. This extra coverage is an inexpensive no-brainer if you just can't drive without your entire Neil Diamond collection.

5. You live in a potential flood zone. In recent years, almost 25 percent of all flood insurance claims came from areas no one considered high risk. The fact is, pretty much everybody lives in a potential flood zone. But keep in mind that most home insurance policies don't cover damage or losses due to floods -- it's an extra policy you have to buy separately. (We're talking about natural-disaster-type flooding here -- home insurance policies do cover damage caused by plumbing overflows or washing machine freak-outs.) Costs vary depending on where you live, but flood policies start at around $120 a year.

6. The high cost of huskies. While the official position of dog lovers is "judge a dog by his deeds, not by his breed," many insurers take a different view. Some companies will not insure your home (or will charge you more) if you own certain breeds of dogs -- including pit bulls, rottweilers, and huskies. Why? In recent years, dog bites have been at the root of about one-quarter of all home insurance liability claims.

7. Little taupe Corvette? It's a myth that auto insurance companies charge higher premiums for red cars. What does impact premiums? Your age, your claims history, and the age and model of the car you drive.

8. Weighty matters. Because extremely overweight people are more likely to develop health problems as they grow older, life insurance companies often charge them higher premiums. But just to be clear: That's a caution for the extremely overweight -- you won't see a difference in your premium costs if you put on a few pounds over the holidays.

9. If you can sell it, you should insure it. If your home is damaged by fire, you don't want to find out after the fact that your homeowners' insurance doesn't cover your computer, your garage, or the 1,300 still-in-the-box Star Wars figurines you were planning to sell online for a profit, because they're all considered "business assets." If you run any kind of business from your home, large or small, make sure to cover your assets with a rider or a separate policy (shop around to see which is more economical).

10. New kids on the block. Homes that are less than 10 years old or have been completely renovated within the last 10 years cost less to insure. And if your home is made of fire-resistant materials, like brick and masonry, you can save even more money.

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6.11.2007

New Store Alert!

Whether you are planning a wedding or just love awesome things, this place is hot. I was wandering around Cameron Village last week and stumbled upon.....



It is a wonderful store filled with all things Japanese and then some! They have amazing handmade papers, origami kits, book-binding accessories, stamps and vintage kimonos! They also have an amazing selection of jewelry, bath products and incense. It's so pretty! I bought some handmade paper for my rehearsal dinner invitations and some other little projects I have going. I really want to go back for some red flower candles. They all smelled heavenly!



They were a little pricey, so I only walked out with some beautiful paper... much like these:



I can't wait to finish the invitations!

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Lists...

This weekend we made 2 lists. 1) Things that need to get done for the wedding and 2) things that need to get done for the house. Both of these lists need to be completed before our family starts getting here in late August! And with only about 8 usable weekends between now and then, we have our work cut out for us!

Yesterday, Jerry got some things from his sister's house and brought them to my place. I figured there was no need to move them twice and there is space available, so why not? I also finished (for the most part) painting our master bedroom! It was really frustrating this time around because I definitely didn't have a steady hand like last time. So, there will be touch-ups and more touch-ups. But hopefully, that won't take too long.

We have slowly but surely been cleaning up the yards (front and back) and Jerry hauled another giant pile of sticks to the garbage on Thursday. These are the things I can't believe we are having to think about now, but life must go on, even in the midst of wedding planning. Plus, it will be the first time that his family and many of our friends see the house and we want it to look as good as we can get it!

Relationally, we are learning what it is like to be busy and in love. We had a great time yesterday going through pictures for the slide show and just being relaxed and enjoying each other. I think it's important to have those moments as regularly as possible. I am so thankful to have a real partner in all of this. I feel like it is only gonna get better!

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6.09.2007

Cake!!

I made this cake for dinner with friends tonight and I think I just might do it again for my bridal luncheon. It's so cute and super easy to make!!





Basically you slice a pound cake into 3 slices, mix a box of instant vanilla pudding with 3/4 cups of milk and 1 cup of cool whip - then layer it with the berries! Top it with plain cool whip and more berries and chill. Yum!

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Yes Please!

In addition to booking our convertible for the honeymoon, Jerry and I also made reservations for our first night (or 2) in San Fransisco, rather, Tiburon. We decided not to stay in the city but wanted to be close by, so we will be here, about 15 min from SF:



Here is a view of San Francisco from Tiburon:



We are staying at The Lodge at Tiburon and from what I can tell, it is beautiful! I have read mixed reviews online about this place, but the bottom line is we got a great deal and we'll be sightseeing alot anyway! Plus, who can turn down free cookies and free movies in your room!? Not me! Chances are this honeymoon is gonna rock.

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Hmmm....

So most of my craft projects this week have revolved around gifts. They are turning out well, but I guess I can't post them just yet because I might have peekers! Rest assured, there will be more projects to come.

We got our invitations all squared away and ready to print. However, the paper we decided on is somewhat hard to find. Go figure! So I will likely have to order it online. We went to Xpedx, but they were closed, so we'll try again on Monday and hope for the best! The good news is, it gives me a little extra time to get my rehearsal dinner invites finished so I might put them in with the invitations after all. Dean sent me the fonts he used as well as the (awesome) invitation so, I swiped them and used them for the rehearsal dinner! Yes!

Jerry and I sat down today to make a list of all available weekends between now and the wedding. We then made a list of the things that 'need' to get done by then. We are hoping to divide the tasks among the weekends and just not think about it until the time comes! I feel good about this plan.

Jerry's mom is being super awesome about the whole wedding. She lives in another state but has been very helpful even from far away. Now I see where Jerry got his awesomeness from!!

Bottom line - good week, good weekend, more to do!

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6.08.2007

U wouldn't believe it!


Don't underestimate the power of a sale bin and a new last name that starts with an unUsual letter. . . I got the pictured stamp at AC Moore for 50 cents!! I had considered using a wax seal for the invitations, but now with my trusty stamp, we are all set!

Speaking of invitations, we got the first proof from Dean last night. I think they are gonna turn out great. I am really excited about it! Jerry and I still need to finalize some details, but we will probably get the paper this weekend and get them outta here. I can't believe the wedding is just over 2 months away! We are already getting some RSVPs on our wedding website, which is awesome. I am so glad people are using it. What a lifesaver!

We finalized everything with the caterer yesterday (thanks baby) and now it's really just a matter of details. I love details!! I have all the materials to make my rehearsal dinner invites as well as the ones for the bridal lunch. There is so much going on! It's just really going to be a 3 day party.

My hope is to have all the work done by Thursday night before the wedding, so that Friday, we can just start enjoying all of our friends and family. My sisters and I will be getting manicures on that Saturday, and then we're off! But I am getting ahead of myself.

Next stop, invitations!!

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6.07.2007

RENTAL CAR POLL

Jerry and I have been planning on renting a convertible all along for our honeymoon. And while the rates are good, the "one way" fee just about TRIPLES the price. Since we are driving from San Francisco to Seattle, there is a cute little drop charge that is obscene.


We have checked everything we can think of. All the discount websites, the companies directly, AAA.com and on the phone, USAA. The absolute cheapest is still about $250 more than a regular car.

So the question is, do we go for it? Or is that just crazy?


****EDIT**** We are going for it! ***

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6.06.2007

Tradition!

Jerry and I are not Jewish. However, I was raised in a Christian home that believed that our beliefs not only stem from, but are directly connected to Jewish roots and faith. That being said, there are a long line of wedding traditions to draw from. One such tradition is when the Groom stomps on a wine glass after the couple is pronounced husband and wife.



Originally, the meaning behind this is to remember the brokenness of Jerusalem and the Jewish connection with that Ancient City. However, there are more modern interpretations for this action that we will use to explain why we chose to incorporate it. Following is a pretty good summation:

"The breaking of the glass at the end of a wedding ceremony serves to remind of two very important aspects of a marriage. The bride and groom - and everyone - should consider these marriage vows as an IRREVOCABLE ACT - just as permanent and final as the breaking of this glass is unchangeable. But the breaking of the glass also is a warning of the FRAILTY of a marriage. That sometimes a single thoughtless act, breech of trust, or infidelity can damage a marriage in ways that are very difficult to undo - just as it would be so difficult to undo the breaking of this glass. (Bride) and (Groom), knowing that this marriage is permanent, you should strive to show each other the love and respect befitting your spouse and love of your life."

I am really glad we have decided to do this. I think it will add a lot to our wedding and it's meaningful to me that we are making our commitment public in such a memorable way!

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Yes, i am a girl

One of my favorite things to do is get a manicure/pedicure at my favorite place, Lee Spa Nails. They are reasonably priced and very sweet. Obviously, I can't go that often, but it is usually pretty easy for me to justify at least a manicure now that I have a pretty ring to show off. A few months ago, I found the perfect "barely there" color and just had it done again yesterday. I am sure this is what I will choose for the wedding day. I just love it!


It's called, Honeymoon Sweet, by OPI. Don't let the pink-y-ness of the picture fool you! It has a wonderfully natural tone with a touch of pearl. Try it out, you won't be sorry!

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6.05.2007

And now, we wait.

I have quite a few projects ahead of me. Sending invitations, finishing the centerpieces, making the programs, to name a few. But, I have ordered some supplies and can't do anything until they get here! I mean, there are probably some things I could do, but for the most part, I am in a holding pattern. It's probably actually a good thing, because I need a break!

We have been preparing for our marriage in other ways as well, this weekend, Jerry finished painting the master bathroom and I painted half of the bedroom. This way, when he moves in, everything should be ready to go. I have been slowly but surely clearing out my 'stuff' that I should have thrown away years ago so that we don't feel buried. And we have been making household decisions together since I bought the house. I already consider it ours.

It's funny because with all of the planning, I sometimes forget that the wedding is just "one day" and soon, I will not only have a husband, but a roommate! I am really looking forward to being under one roof and I want to make the transition as smooth as possible. We will be starting our pre-wedding counseling sometime this month through our church and I am really looking forward to the discussions it will promote!

So it's good to have a little wedding-planning-breather, but as soon as my supplies arrive it will be back to project city!!

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6.04.2007

A shower.....for meeee???

My sisters both live out of town, and as much as they would love to be involved in the planning process, a lot of the time, it's just not feasible. So a while back some local friends put their heads together and decided to help throw me a shower!I have such great friends and I am so thankful that they would do this for me.

They know my theme and secretly made the cutest shower invitations ever!! I can't wait to go! :-) Here is a picture of one of the invites:



They did 2 versions, each with a different bird. They are just so adorable! I can't wait for the party!

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6.03.2007

Sweet Sweet Deals...

Planning a wedding on a budget is something everyone has to deal with. Even if your budget is $50k, it's still a budget and the limits will be pushed. This is why finding a deal is so completely satisfying. We can probably all admit to paying full price some of the time, but for many of us, it's getting the sale, or feeling like we 'beat the system' with a steal, that makes us feel like we really got something great.

Well, I feel that way about my garage sale experience from yesterday. Jerry lives in a really interesting neighborhood full of old houses and young people. New families and some that have been around for generations had a community garage sale that we barely visited. But in the few that we did catch, I was able to get some great stuff that will lend that vintage feel that I am looking for.

I already have some china that I got from my grandmother. I plan to use it and another set of dessert plates (still looking) to have on each table with a stack of sugar wafers. Here is what I already have:


I love these plates and I am so excited to use them in the reception! My original idea was to have antique dinner plates for everyone, but I think this will do fine for the look I am going for. I have done some reading about the simplicity of weddings in the 40s, so we are going to keep the colors to neutrals for the linens and decorate with texture. Imagine my joy when I stumbled on a lot of 30 hand-made place mats, napkins, and coasters yesterday for $4.50!!!



I plan to use them everywhere, under the guest book, on the cake table, in the centerpieces. And I think they are lovely and plan to use them in our new home! It's so fun to come across something like this that I wasn't even really looking for, but now that I have them, I can feel my creativity spark! It's fun!

We also found these little guys for 50 cents! I don't think we will use them on the cake, but I think they will be an adorable addition to something! Maybe the entrance at the reception.



It's a strange feeling to be acquiring pieces of a puzzle that has yet to be made. I hope what is in my head comes together!!

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